I have known a lot of people that would say that past isn't important anymore in the present. They would say past is past. They believe that it shouldn't be even talked about. At first I thought I understand them and it’s just a coincidence that many of them have really done weird things and have personality problems. But then again, as I come to think of it more, I have realized that past really matters. I'm not saying that people should still deal with it as if it is still happening but I think it should, at least, be honestly told especially to a lover. Why? Well, I think it's because we are responsible for almost all of the things that we've been through. Many things in our lives wouldn't have happened if they weren't because of our decisions. And I think every decision that we make reflects our personality. And to a person who is for a long-lasting relationship, the personality of a girl really matters. If someone has done something really weird/bad in the past doesn't state that she is a bad girl but it does give an idea... an idea that can really be very helpful. It can prepare someone for the things that may come as a trial in the future; It can end a wrong relationship before both lovers be so in love with each other; and so on. Many say if you love a person, her past wouldn't be important anymore and that loving is accepting all that a person is. I think I agree on that, but I think loving someone is also being completely considerate on the other person. And if you're really considerate you'll make sure if you're really for this girl. You'll try to know what you can find out about this girl and if you think you can deal with the things you found out, then that's the time you commit yourself and vice versa. :)
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